In my last post on phone game, I gave some surefire tips on how to turn that phone number you got from that hottie at the bar last night into a solid date. I got a lot of email and comments after that – and the #1 question was… how do you get solid phone numbers from “9s” and “10s” in the first place?
Well, ask and you shall receive. Here are some of the basics for getting a woman’s phone number – direct fromLove Systems (formerly Mystery Method Corp), the oracle for helping average guys attract beautiful women.
Never just give out your number.
Don’t hand out business cards and hope she’ll get in touch. Get her phone number. You do want her to have yours too, though, because you have to…
…Program your number into her phone.
Many women won’t answer calls from numbers they don’t know. Program yourself in her phone, ideally with “callback humor” – something that’ll remind her of meeting you and put her in a good mood. I was flirting with a former Playboy model at a party and she kept playfully hitting me and telling me I was “such a jerk”. [If she does this while smiling, it’s a very good sign]. So I went into her phone as “Nick the jerk”. Cheesy, but it works.
Focus on the date, not the number.
Only get her number once you’ve discovered a shared interest for something – art galleries, sushi, live music, it doesn’t matter. Then you can casually say “hey, give me your number, I’ll let you know when I’m free and we can try that new sushi place”. The phone number should never seem like the goal of the conversation, just a natural part of your conversation.
Be cool. It’s like scoring a touchdown.
Act like you’ve been there before. Don’t end the conversation right after getting her number – stay at least five minutes. When you go back to your friends, make sure they’re cool – don’t let them look at her or congratulate you.
Leave (on a high note).
Nothing is more awkward that continually running into a girl the same night you got her number. If you’re going to leave the conversation with her (and at Love Systems we usually don’t recommend this most of the time, when you could “instant date” her or take her home – more on these in a future article) make sure you don’t keep running into her that night.
For more ready-to-use tips to attract and date beautiful women using Love Systems, check out Nick Savoy’s downloadable eBook Magic Bullets (including free chapters), here