Love them or hate them, so-called “pick up artists” definitely have game. And one of the best is Savoy, the head instructor at Love Systems, one of the top schools for teaching guys how to approach, seduce and date hot women.
Savoy has instructed thousands of guys worldwide how to up their game, and he’s going to be posting some of his tips and methods right here.
The first post is on Phone Game. Sharpen your pencils, school is in…
So you met the woman of your dreams and you got her phone number. Now what? The sad truth is that most phone numbers don’t lead to you actually seeing her again. A phone number needs to be played right to turn it from seven random digits with an area code into a date or a hookup. So learn how to play “Phone Game” so the phone numbers you’ve spent time and energy getting aren’t wasted opportunities!
Here are 5 key mistakes guys make most often:
1. Early Phone Game:
Program your name into her phone! If she doesn’t know who’s calling, she probably won’t pick up.
2. Think Like Her:
Men see the phone as a scheduling tool, while women enjoy the pleasure of conversation. When you call her, don’t try to schedule a meeting on the first call – focus on solidifying her attraction and comfort with her. It’s often best to wait for a second or third conversation before asking her out.
Swingers is so 1996. Don’t wait three days to call – phone her soon after your first meeting. Remember, she most likely provided her number in the heat of the moment and beautiful women give out their number to lots of men. Seize the moment when she’s still thinking of you.
4. Conversational Basics:
On the first call, prepare to run the conversation and do most of the talking. Be entertaining, don’t let the conversation start with “Hey its Mike we met at X bar… how are you? I’m great how are you? Good thanks.” Borrrrrrring.
If you get her voicemail, you can leave a message, but make it short and don’t expect her to call back, even if she’s interested. Call tomorrow at a different time of day.
For a more detailed analysis of Phone Game, and additionally, Text Game, please go to Love Systems.