At TheBachelorGuy.com it's been my goal to get you info on the latest, newest, coolest and most unique gear, drinks, food, etc. - in the interest of improving your life. And lifestyle.

Most of the time my info comes from industry insiders, who send me samples, testers, survey results, links... whatever they have that I can pass along to you, my readers.

Sometimes I gather the info myself. This is one of those times.

Valentine's Day is less than a month away. That means gifts. Sexy gifts. I was talking to my friends over at Shirley of Hollywood - designers and manufacturers of some of the hottest, sexiest lingerie I've ever seen - and we were discussing what guys should get their women. And what sexy stuff women could get for their men. This brought up a number of other questions and, after much discussion, we decided to ask you, for your opinions.

So now you have the opportunity to help me help you. Take the short survey we've put together. Let us know what you think, want, need, buy. And we'll make sure the info gets out.

And for all my female readers - here's your chance to let guys everywhere know what you want in a gift. What you really want.

As an added bonus, Shirley's is giving away a His N' Hers Romantic Gift Basket, valued at over $300, to one lucky survey taker. It's the perfect gift to ignite your Valentine's Day.

If you're a guy, click here. Ladies, click here. The future of Valentine's Day is in your hands...