Im 23. come and get me, my lovely thirty-somethings!

I'm surprised this didn't happen sooner. Women live about 5-10 years longer than men. It makes no sense to marry some guy 5 years older than you and have him die 10-15 years before you. It's far more sensible to choose men 5-10 years younger than you and die about the same time.

Call it what you want, but it was popularized as "the MILF" or "cougar", which not really old and has always been prevalent in American society.

A very interesting article.

Most wonderful and passionate relationship I ever had was when I was 22. She was 33. After that one ended, I was relegated to the proverbial pillow-fights with drama-induced 20-something "divas".

Guys, if you get the chance, date someone who knows who she is and what she wants -- date the 30-something. It's so much more rewarding.

Seriously...how may women you know who are ten years older than you that look like Demi Moore. Most of them look like Roger Moore

Younger men are always a hot draw. I'm an erotica writer and I'm finding that more and more women are interested in reading about older women/younger men stories.

That's right guys; 30-something women have the experience and maturity to give you the time of your life. That's all I ever look for nowadays - cute, thirty-something women to keep me satisfied. Of course, I'm 61, but still .............

Ah yes... 30-something women and vanity, the perfect combination for the younger man. It's all about the chase boys. The 30-something woman wants to know she still has "it". Don't expect a long relationship outta the deal. Of course is that really a bad thing when you're 20-something?!

"don't women hit their sexual peak in their mid thirties?" - Yea sure...Only in the movies and mens fantasies. Medical studies have proved the opposite. There are the select few that do reach that peak, but they're few and far between.

That being said, I'd still take a 30-something woman over a 20-something dunce anytime.

seems like the old dog poop joke........

All i can think about is the 30 years of other guys dicks being cramed into her vag.

I think women are just realizing that men don't mature past a certain age ;-)

Women 30+ come to the good old FC baby and experience the real thing from a 25 yr old stalion. slinging coreg isn't the only thing i do. i can last for hours and like to be the "student" to your every need.
I love oils and long walks on the beach. i also love peaches ;)

In my mind, milfs are the only women to consider to have an affair with by the way. There at the age where they actually want and enjoy the sex. They're not giving it with the "long term" agenda. No drama when it's over. That reminds me how I've been neglecting myself, becoming my girlfriend's little puppy. Getting it when she pleases. Thanks for the reminder.

it's a phase, whether for the individual or for the demographic. it's all fun and games until you decide to have kids. at that point men seek out younger women, who are healthier and more fertile. pure biology and evolutionary instinct. not gonna change.

never trust anyone over thirty

There are a lot of MILFs out there, and one of the hottest is Melissa Joan Hart. OK, she's not that old, but she's got a son, and that qualifies her for the "M" part. Here are some pics that would make you think "ILF".

http://www.damnimcute.com/c...

Best article ever. 23/M/Come and get it!

"It's far more sensible to choose men 5-10 years younger than you and die about the same time." Chris V.

I agree. I'm 20 and dating a 26 year old. She has been the most understanding, experienced, and sane woman I have ever had the pleasure of being with and we've lasted a year without looking back. I always thought that I was the "lucky" one, and though it sometimes is intimidating to feel less experienced and subsequently less "mature", we've worked through any issues we've had, which is more than I can say for the girls I've dated my age.

I'm 37, my ex is 32. She had an affair with a 23 year old. This was a year ago. Today they are looking at bill collectors and the very real aspect of losing their home (her share of the equity in our home). Hope the fling (and excitement) was worth it because they both shortly will be living in their car. =)

Ain't nothing wrong with girls dating younger guys. ;)

More and more guys don't know what it is to be a man, cos they never had a dad at home, ergo they are happy to stay developmentally retarded in submission to an older female.

MILFs are death denial freaks. When their bodies start to decay, depression and reality hit like a fast moving freight train.

I wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life with anything as dim and vacuous as a MILF. Give me someone reconciled with the cycle of life. Not some bag of saline and botox on artificial life support.

Yes, I'm going to take advice from the previous posters who are probably between the ages of 14-20...

They say age differences work perfectly... older women get more exciting mates in younger men... which leaves the younger women to find experienced mature employed older men to date. It's a win-win.

Never slept with a younger woman all my life. Biggest gap was 8 years older than me. I'm still 21, and I am attracted to well-maintained older women. More stable, not as bitchy and needy, not so dramatic.

18yo girls have sex because they want boys to like them.

28yo girls have sex because they want things from men.

38yo women have sex because they enjoy sex.

And yes, you can tell the difference.

Could be because a lot of guys over 30 let their gut go and are out of shape. Stay in shape and the women will still chase you no matter how old you are.

Some women just like good looking men, younger, older same age ...

... and they can get them.

Happy Husband has a point:

Flat abs, basic hygiene and decent wardrobe, car, job, interests, basically "a life" go a long way.

Besides when you are tired of it and finally figure out "you have enough women angry with you", you can always go back to your happy life ... uninterrupted.

I read the little article and it may be what older women fantasize, but for most it isn't gonna happen. I'm a 47 year old bacheor, professional and in good shape for my age. I went to the plenty of fish website. Lemme tell ya, the women there within 5 years of my own age do NOTHING for me, and most of the women 10 years younger than me do NOTHING for me.

If its true that all these cougars are getting the young men, practically none of these cougars are on web dating sites. All I see there are overweight, haggared mothers, looking fairly spent from years with the jerk the divorced. And that vision does not give me a woody..........ever.

It's definitely a woman's world now. So men, make the most of your youth because after 35 you will be over the hill and struggling to find anyone (unless you are rich). Nothing to look forward to for us, a lifetime of sex for women.

would a 30 year old guy ever date a mature 22 yr old?

Being a 42 woman that is involved with a 29 year old, I must defend the May-December scenario. For me I work hard every day to be in top shape. My experience has been that men( the ones that I know, certainly not all in the world) tend to let themselves go a bit. Younger men usually have more stamina for all things not just sex and are far less prone to the "can't we watch TV all weekend" routine. Of course I have been told that I just want a playmate for my children etc. but the bottom line age is but a number and the lower numbers are a good fit for my life.

i am a 43 yr old woman, i am attracted to younger men...far younger, 10 to 15 yrs and they are attracted to me. Men my age have let themselves go for the most part and i am just not attracted to them. I have more in common with 20 somethings than i do men my age. i'm not looking for a long term relationship i've had that, now it is my time to just have fun and enjoy life. Nothing wrong with that, men have been doing it for ages.

nah, forget all that. nobody wants to have a beat up old puss. especially if you are a younger dude.

that is not true...i have dated quite a few younger guys, they come on to me not the other way around

what is sure is that God is not concerned about age. some women got wonderful babies at 50 and some women aged 30 are menopaused. In short age is a number and any woman same age as Madona or Sharon Stone or Demi Moore should be entitled to be Happy even without the money (to get luxury plastic surgery as DM)...Let Love Live for each being is Unique.

I was 14, she was 22 when she first noticed me. Even at that age I knew that she was sexually attracted to me, and she knew that I was sexually attracted to her. She was also married. She had an unbelievable body, and unlike many women today, it was real; she simply defied gravity.

Even now, decades later, I think about her -- no "fantasize" is the correct word..
She was also extraordinarily intellectual and I fell in love with her body and her mind.

It took five years, but when I was 19 she finally made her move. I wouldn't have dreamed of being so bold as to initiate physical contact, and the truth is -- and every huntress understands this -- a younger and less experienced guy is pretty much defenseless. And believe me, he loves every minute of his defenselessness and your conquest, even at a very young age. It is not that a younger guy necessarily lacks sexual experience, it's just that it is difficult for him to get his mind around being attractive to such an amazing and exotic creature. Nor is a young guy accustom to such directness. By comparison the high school girls I was dating at the time were a bore. To me this was the ultimate sexual high. It was unworldly.

Once she let me know that rejection was not an issue, I immediately became the aggressor. I was able to finally turn five years of fantasizing about her into
reality. We carried on an affair covertly for another four years, until she divorced her husband and we became a "legal" item. I was in love, but didn't realize the extent of my love for her. And although she physically excited me beyond my wildest dreams, I did not fully trust her. I remember being out to dinner with her one evening when she noticed a young guy about 18 years old -- I was then 24, she was 31. She went on and on about how precious and darling this kid was. I knew at that point that she would never remain faithful to me. I ended the relationship shortly thereafter. I never said anything to her about her overt attaction to this young guy. And believe me when I tell you that I am not a jealous person, but I knew then, just like I knew when I was 14, that she wanted this young stud. And given her physical appearance she could have had anyone she wanted. The perceived problem was that I knew that younger guys would not remain just an attraction. I knew that she was bold enough to go out and take what she wanted. There would be no holding Joyce back.

Now that I am old and gray and married, I openly admit to all you strangers that there is not a single day that has gone by over the last 34 years that I have not thought of her. She remains uniquely the most exciting experience of my life. She took our break up very hard and wth great revenge, actually calling some of my old girfriends in an attempt to make my life miserable.

Joyce doesn't know it, but in the end she got her revenge for being dumped. I've never stopped wanting her.

When i was 16 i was dating a 19yr old. When i was 20 i was sleeping with a 31 year old milf with 3 kids... her oldest was 10. Currently i'm 22 and dating a 28yr old. The older ladies love me. And thats not to say i haven't gone with my age and a few younger (legal ofcourse) - but the conversations and the maturity level were never there, not to mention the amazing sex you get from a real woman with expierence. Older hot mommas FTW!

I'm a 26 year old femaie (without baggage) and I'm dating a 21 year old male. He'll be 22 in a couple of months. It's exciting and really fun to be dating someone a little younger. This is my first one and wont be my last. He is the one who came to me and expressed his feeling for me on a long term level. I'm still under 30 so I'm not thinking of marriage yet, but it's great so far!

Truly silly arguments. Im a 32 year old guy and dated a range of women from 24 to 39 (i think, thats what she said)....and the age never really mattered. Some young 20s are very mature (youd think they were 50), and some older women act like they are 18 and throw hissy fits.......it just really doesnt matter.....